Presidential Proclamation National Women’s Health Week

President Barack Obama

Presidential Proclamation — National Women’s Health Week
NATIONAL WOMEN’S HEALTH WEEK, 2012
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BY THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA
A PROCLAMATION

Women have guided our country toward prosperity and progress, and our Nation’s success depends on their well-being. While women often play a leading role in making medical decisions for their families, their own health care needs have too often gone unmet. During National Women’s Health Week, we recommit to making health care more accessible and affordable for women across our country.

As President, I have made advancing gender equality in health care a top priority. Through the historic Affordable Care Act, we are reversing many of the worst abuses of the health insurance industry. Beginning in 2014, many insurers will no longer be allowed to charge women higher premiums simply because of their gender, and it will be illegal for most insurance companies to deny coverage to women because they have a pre-existing condition, including cancer or pregnancy. Health plans will also be required to cover maternity care. The law already enables women in new insurance plans to see any primary care provider or OB-GYN, or bring their children to any pediatrician in their health plan’s network without a referral, and it prevents most insurance companies from denying coverage to children with pre-existing conditions.

My Administration has fought to make preventive care accessible to all. Under the Affordable Care Act, we eliminated out-of-pocket costs for recommended preventive services such as mammograms, cervical cancer screenings, contraception, and well-woman visits under most plans. In 2011 alone, more than 20 million women received expanded access to these services at no additional cost.

National Women’s Health Week presents an opportunity for all women to prioritize their well-being by scheduling annual check-ups and screenings. To find more information on women’s preventive care, visit www.WomensHealth.gov

As we celebrate the progress we have made, we recognize that American families cannot afford a return to the days when women were over-charged and denied access to critical services. During National Women’s Health Week, let us move forward in pursuit of a fairer, healthier America.

NOW, THEREFORE, I, BARACK OBAMA, President of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and the laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim May 13 through May 19, 2012, as National Women’s Health Week. I encourage all Americans to celebrate the progress we have made in protecting women’s health and to promote awareness, prevention, and educational activities that improve the health of all women.

IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this fourteenth day of May, in the year of our Lord two thousand twelve, and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirty-sixth.

BARACK OBAMA

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Some of the partners of this week’s celebration are:

The National Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Coalition, BlogHer, Stroller Strides, TEXT4BABY, Speaking of Women’s Health, Strong Woman, North Shore Long Island Jewish Healthcare System, National Council on Aging, Wellpoint, Zumba, Ovarian Cancer National Alliance, Better Hearing Institute, Adora, Amgen, Choose You, Curves, Da Vinci Surgery, Medela, National Bone Health Alliance, National Panhellenic Conference

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National Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Coalition to offer Educational Webinar during National Women’s Health Week!

Susan Dowd Stone, MSW, LCSW

The National Healthy Mothers, Healthy Babies Coalition joins the US Department of Health and Human Services’ Office on Women’s Health in celebrating National Women’s Health Week with a Webinar on the mental health needs of moms before, during and after pregnancy.

HMHB was the first major maternal-infant health organization to include the issue of maternal mental health among their priorities. Their acclaimed TEXT4BABY program includes – among its messages related to mother/baby well-bring throughout pregnancy and the first year of life – encouragement to mothers to reach out for help should symptoms of depression develop.

The Webinar will take place on Wednesday, May 16, 2012 from 2:00 – 3:00 pm Eastern Time. Featuring therapist, author and maternal mental health expert Susan Dowd Stone, MSW, LCSW, the Webinar will offer an overview of this critical issue for maternal-child health, spotlighting the importance of prevention and awareness. Among the topics to be covered: minimizing the long-term effects of mental health problems, how mom’s emotional wellness can enhance baby’s first year of life, and helpful resources for both providers and parents.

Register by clicking here

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Hudson Valley Birth Network Conference to focus on establishing continuum of care in perinatal mental health

The Hudson Valley Birth Network

From the Hudson Vally Birth Network:

As advocates and professionals concerned with perinatal mental health, a current issue of major concern is how to connect the life-saving services of all perinatal professionals and support systems in a way that will provide a continuum of care of new mothers, their infants and families. The Hudson Valley Birth Network invites you to attend a one-day conference on this critical topic on May 15, 2012. The conference will be held from 9 AM to 4 PM at The James House Mansion at Phelps Memorial Hospital 701 North Broadway, Sleepy Hollow, NY 10591.

The program will open with a re-broadcast of Emmy Award winning Sara Lee Kessler’s inaugural PBS series “Healthbeat” featuring postpartum depression and steps taken so far to attempt to facilitate these community connections. This conference offers the only additional current opportunity to see this acclaimed presentation as it will not be available online.

Keynote Speaker will be Susan Dowd Stone MSW, LCSW an award winning author, advocate and mental health expert and former president of Postpartum Support International. Susan is a NJHHS Certified Perinatal Mood Disorders Instructor, an Adjunct Assistant Professor in the MSW program at the Silver School of Social Work, New York University and public reviewer for the National Institute of Mental Health. Her co-edited book Perinatal and Postpartum Mood Disorders. Perspectives and Treatment Guide for the Health Care Practitioner, has been adopted by professional education programs around the world. A book signing will allow participants to purchase this essential manual at a discounted price.

Following the keynote presentation, an afternoon panel discussion will take place featuring the following experts from the world of perinatal mental health:

Sabrina Khan, MD, Reproductive Psychiatrist, NYU Medical Center, New York, NY.

Dr. Khan is Board certified in both Psychiatry and Neurology. She is a Clinical Instructor at NYU Medical Center. She lectures and supervises students on perinatal mood disorders.

Dr. Khan will discuss her work treating women experiencing mood and anxiety symptoms related to their menstrual cycle, during pregnancy and postpartum, as well as perimenopause/menopause. She will describe her evaluation of the need for psychotherapy and/or medication and her review of the risks of medication in perinatal period, including teratogenicity, neonatal complications and neurodevelopmental teratogenicity.

This includes a review of the risks of untreated illness, so the patient can make an informed decision. She describes her role as a coordinator of care with the obstetrician, therapist and pediatrician.

Jennifer Moore, MD, IBCLC, FAAP Lactation Consultant and Pediatrician, Advanced Pediatrics in Norwalk, CT.

Dr. Moore has published and presented work on breastfeeding. She is the medical director of the Nightingales Breastfeeding Center and is a general pediatrician.

Dr. Moore will describe the mental health aspects of becoming a mother. She will present the concept of the Breastfeeding Dyad. She will consider medical problems the mother and /or the newborn might face and inform us about studies that indicate that the mental health of the mother as well as bonding is improved by breastfeeding even in the setting of depression and anxiety.

Dr. Moore will describe the ways in which her pediatric practice uniquely addresses these issues from prenatal, perinatal and postnatal support and care of the dyad, optimizing the outcome for both mother and baby.

Sheryl McGavin, Licensed Craniosacral therapist, Owner/Clinician of Sheryl McGavin PLLC in Charlotte, NC. Ms. McGavin is also a former instructor at the Upledger Institute, FLA.

Sheryl McGavin will describe the supportive role of craniosacral therapy in the identification and treatment of perinatal mood disorders. Her presentation will include the anatomy and physiology of the craniosacral system and the treatment principles of craniosacral therapy including the somatoemotional release process.
Ms. McGavin will also address how craniosacral therapy can assist in the detection and treatment of perinatal mood disorders and the positive effects craniosacral therapy has on the function of the automatic nervous system.

Catherine Gallagher, CNM, Connecticut Childbirth and Women’s Center, Danbury, CT

Experiencing her own Vaginal Birth After Cesarean (VBAC) with a midwife in attendance changed the course of her life and career! It’s that change that led her to Childbirth Education and consumer advocacy, becoming a doula, labor & delivery Nurse, and culminating in her career as midwife. She is fulfilled in her work, especially the kind she is able to practice at the CCWC. She believes that birth is a pivotal life experience, and takes pride in bringing together the emotional, social, and spiritual aspects of healthcare – so often lacking in today’s medical world.

Whether patients choose the hospital or the Birth Center, her commitment to caring for women and their families within a midwifery philosophy is unwavering. She also enjoys working within a full scope practice that offers prenatal care as well as Gynecology, and family planning.

Ms. Gallagher will review her work with women at the CCWC, highlighting postpartum work and support within a midwifery model. She will discuss opportunities to screen for postpartum mood disorders and clarify the development of practitioner networks.

Katherine Stone, founder and editor of Postpartum Progress Inc.

Ms. Stone is an award-winning, nationally-recognized peer advocate for women who suffer mental illnesses related to pregnancy & childbirth. She is the creator & editor of Postpartum Progress, a non-profit focused on improving the health and well-being of women, children and families by improving access to quality services and support for women with perinatal mood and anxiety disorders.

Ms. Stone will discuss her work which includes going wherever necessary to speak about how common postpartum depression is and to combat the terrible stigma related to this illness. She has shared her struggle with Postpartum OCD openly and written about PPD as a contributing expert for BlogHer, the world’s top community for and guide to blogs for and by women.

Ms. Stone has personally responded to thousands upon thousands of emails from suffering mothers, helping them to find professional help and encouraging them along their journey to recovery.

ACNM Credits, 7 DONA CEU’s and 2 CERPS for IBCLC’s, have been applied for.

The cost of the conference which includes lunch is $100 for Hudson Valley Birth Network Members and $125.00 for the general public.

To register, click here.

Birth is not only about making babies. Birth is about making mothers, strong, competent, capable mothers who trust themselves and know their inner strength.

Barbara Katz-Rothman

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PPD Research Group Seeks Study Participants

Received the following update from Hiltrud Dawson who is Health Promotion Consultant for Best Start Resource Center, a reputable Canadian organization that has long targeted postpartum depression. You do not need to live in Ontario to participate!

On behalf of Lori Ross:

“Are you dealing with stress? Do you struggle with your emotional health? We need YOU to fill out this survey!”

The “Pathways Study” is a community-based research project that seeks to understand women’s* experiences with depression as well as their use of mental health services.

We are recruiting 900 participants of all sexual orientations, abilities and ethno-racial backgrounds to share their experiences by filling out a confidential and anonymous online survey that takes approximately 30 to 45 minutes to complete. About 40 of the 900 online participants will also be asked to do a one hour semi-structured interview with a member of the Pathways Research Team to discuss their experiences.

We are especially trying to reach women who experience multiple stressors associated with their race, class, gender, sexual orientation and/or gender identity. You will be compensated for your participation with a President’s Choice gift certificate, or a donation to charity.

A primary goal of this project is to find out what happens when people seek help or treatment for their emotional or mental health. Our goal is to help make changes to mental health services.

To participate, click here

*Includes trans women.

Hiltrud Dawson

Health Promotion Consultant

Best Start Resource Centre

c/o Health Nexus

180 Dundas Street West, Suite 301

Toronto ON, M5G 1Z8

Phone: 416 408 2249 or 1 800 397 9567 ext. 2250

Direct: 905 388 0181

Fax: 905 388 0181 (call first, please)

h.dawson@healthnexus.ca

www.beststart.org

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Military Services Pioneer Dr. Barbara Van Dahlen among Time Magazine’s Top 100 Most Influential People in the World!

Dr. Barbara Van Dahlen

Dr. Barbara van Dahlen founded Give an Hour in 2005 to encourage the utilization of mental health services among returning veterans. As a member of Give an Hour, mental health professionals provide a minimum of 1 hour per week of free counseling to soldiers and their families. Give an hour has helped thousands and thousands of servicemen/women and their families to recover from the wide spectrum of mental health issues and challenges they confront upon return to civilian life – or during deployment.

Barbara Van Dahlen has worked tirelessly to recruit mental health professionals and cultivate associations with military organizations which can help encourage and promote these lifesaving services. She was among the first to recognize and emphasize the vulnerability of military wives to postpartum depression.

Please join me in congratulating this tireless pioneer whose consistent efforts have elevated the spirits and mental health of our nation’s bravest. I am proud to be a member of Give an Hour’s Team. If you would like to join this organization and contribute some time to our nation’s heroes, please visit the website and sign up!

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Hudson Perinatal Consortium offers Shari Lusskin, MD and Jeanne Watson Driscoll PhD, for May 8 Conference

Shari Lusskin, MD

The Hudson Perinatal Consortium, directed by Marianne Moore, LCSW, has long sponsored high quality educational events for practitioners throughout the tri-state area. Funded in part by the NJ Department of Health and Senior Services, the caliber of speakers/presenters is always great. One consistently comes away invigorated and satisfied with the enriching learning experience and progress toward obtaining those CEU’s. And the topics to be covered are essential for practitioners who claim a perinatal mental health specialty.

For the May 8th Conference entitled “Effective Treatment of Conditions Associated with Perinatal Mood Disorders”, two outstanding, nationally known published experts have been confirmed for this full-day event. The best part is, each speaker will cover their topic in depth as they will not be limited to the typical 50 minute per segment time. Plus, there will be ample opportunity to ask questions at the end!

Shari I. Lusskin, MD served as the first Director of Reproductive Psychiatry at NYU Langone Medical Center and New York University School of Medicine from 2003 to 2011. She holds a faculty appointment at NYU as a Clinical Associate Professor in Psychiatry and Obstetrics and Gynecology. She also holds an appointment as an Adjunct Associate Professor of Psychiatry, Obstetrics, Gynecology, and Reproductive Sciences at The Mount Sinai School of Medicine

As a specialist in Women’s Reproductive Mental Health and psychopharmacology during pregnancy and breastfeeding, Dr. Lusskin has lectured extensively in the United States and Canada, as well as in Europe and India. She has a long-standing commitment to improving understanding of women’s psychiatric needs, both by professionals and the general public. In 2001 she founded the NYU Reproductive Psychiatry Conference. The 6th NYU Reproductive Psychiatry Conference was held on Saturday, October 6, 2007.

Dr. Lusskin is the Director of Psychopharmacologic Agents for the Reproductive Toxicology Center, a Non-Profit Foundation. The Reproductive Toxicology Center operates Reprotox®, a computerized data base on the reproductive and developmental effects of drugs and other chemicals, biologics, and physical agents .

Shari will discuss Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and the most serious of postpartum disruptions, Postpartum Psychosis. Among the nation’s leading perinatal psychiatrists, this incredible opportunity to learn from her extensive clinical experience and knowledge based should not be missed!

Equally renown and among the most sought after conference speakers on postpartum mood disorders is Boston based Jeanne Watson Driscoll PhD, PMHCNS-BC. Jeanne is a Board Certified Clinical Nurse Specialist in Adult psychiatric-mental health. She is President and owner of JWD Associates, Inc., as well as a member of The Mica Collaborative in Wellesley, Massachusetts. She provides psychotherapy and pharmacotherapy for women who experience mood and/or anxiety disorders through the childbearing years. Jeanne will talk about Bipolar Disorder and PTSD.

Both clinicians will discuss the role of medication in PPD treatment including references providing the latest research on the safety and efficacy of pharmacotherapy among this population.

The event will take place at the Chart House Restaurant, Pier D-T, Lincoln Harbor in Weehawken, NJ. This location is easily accessible from NYC via Port Imperial Ferry Line, Light Rail from Hoboken, or by car (there is ample parking). The event will run from 8 AM to 4 PM. For further information please call 201-876-8900. The cost of the conference is only $75.00 for non-members and $60.00 for members of the Hudson Perinatal Consortium. Social workers and those requesting Professional Education units will receive 6 CEU’s.

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Tune In Tuesday, March 27th as Sara Lee Kessler debuts “Healthbeat” on PBS featuring Postpartum Depression

Afriye Amerson, MD, Susan Dowd Stone, LCSW, journalist Sara Lee Kessler, Mary Ann Lofrumento, MD and producer Janice Selinger

Life has been impossibly hectic these last three months. Blogging took a back seat to multiple personal (my only daughter’s engagement!) and professional (teaching, writing, clinical and advocacy) collaborations relevant to perinatal mental health.

As spring approaches, the results of these endeavors are ready for presentation and will be featured each week in this renewed Perinatal Pro blog! Despite my absence, the list of Perinatal Pro subscribers reached new heights – and the associated guilt brought me back to the keyboard!

It is most gratifying to see the increasing numbers of those from all realms – policy, practice, legislative and consumer based organizations – who now align themselves with the fight for better detection and treatment of perinatal mood disorders. But this also means that they are likely dealing with the direct effects of PPD and searching for answers, treatment and programs for themselves, loved ones, or clients.

The spring’s first important inaugural event in the NY/NJ area may bring answers to some of these questions. Next Tuesday, March 27th at 10:30 PM, Emmy Award winning journalist Sara Less Kessler debuts her new show “Healthbeat” on area PBS stations (NJTV in the tri-state area).

Sara Lee Kessler and her producer Janice Selinger journeyed around the country to interview those whose PPD programs and research represent much of what we’ve accomplished so far, as well as highlighting innovative research which points the way to future directions in managing and treating PPD.

They interviewed Dr. Katherine Wisner, a renown and cutting edge researcher at UPMC who has spearheaded studies into the etiology and treatments for PPD. Heading further south, this Emmy award winning team visited the groundbreaking program at UNC, which houses the nation’s first inpatient perinatal psychiatry unit. There they interviewed Dr. David Rubinow, program medical director Samantha Meltzer-Brody, MD and nurse practitioner Chris Raines, RN.

Closer to home, they took stock of NJ’s maternal child health consortia programs, and sat with Susan Ellis Murphy who has helped create amazingly effective outreach programs in southern NJ. Up north, Hoboken University Medical Center is featured with their group for new mothers, giving us a view of what their referral networks look like and how they identify mothers who have the potential to develop postpartum depression and anxiety disorders.

NJ’s First Lady, Mary Jo Codey and her husband, Governor Richard Codey chronicled the early beginnings of NJ’s Speak Up When You’re Down Program.

The program airs these interviews and solicits commentary from a pediatrician, Mary Ann Lofrumento, MD, an obstetrician, Afriye Amerson, MD and a clinical social worker, yours truly.

It’s a great snapshot of where we are, what we have learned and promising directions and programs. I hope you will tune in and join me in thanking this very talented journalist, Sara Lee Kessler, for highlighting our ongoing and critically important mission. Here is station information:

The program is on NJTV on Tuesday, March 27th at 10:30 PM (which is the old NJN same channel depending on cable).

Cablevision CH 8
Comcast CH 23, Hi-Def CH 261 or 800
RCN CH 15
Service Electric Sparta, CH 8
Service Electric Hunterdon CH 23
Time Warner NJ CH 23, Hi-Def CH 723
Time Warner NYC CH 165
Verizon Fios, CH 23, Hi-Def 523,
DIRECT TV, CH 50 (NYC area) CH 23 (Philly area)
Dish Network CH 58, Hi-Def CH 8113 north, CH 23 and Hi-Def CH 8161 south,
Over the Air Camden CH 23, CH 52 Trenton, CH 58 New Brunswick, and CH 50 Montclair.

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Today is Strong Start Day! Help Postpartum Progress Help Mothers!

From Katherine Stone:

Postpartum Progress needs your help.

I write today because I’m personally asking you to support the work of Postpartum Progress. I know you have trudged the dark and lonely road of postpartum depression, either as a sufferer, a family member or someone who cares for new mothers.

I must tell you that nothing makes me more anxious or, quite frankly, sick to my stomach, as asking for donations. Well, one thing makes me sicker: the fact that today only 15% of all women with perinatal mood and anxiety disorders ever receive professional treatment. This means that each year hundreds of thousands more women and their children may suffer from the negative effects of untreated PPD and related illnesses for the rest of their lives.

Postpartum Progress will change that with your help. We are developing a compelling national awareness campaign for postpartum depression, as well as new and improved patient education materials (the kind new moms won’t throw away!), and new uses of technology to reach suffering moms no matter where they are.

On October 5th, the day when more children are born each year than any other day, I am asking you to do one of three things:

1) Make a donation to Postpartum Progress. Any amount is welcome.

2) Ask at least 2 other people who love you and know what you went through – people who’ve come to know that postpartum depression is real and that all women deserve to have access to the best information and help – to make a donation today in your name.

3) Refer us to contacts at organizations that can help us with our work.

If you are financially unable to donate, send us your prayers or moral support so that we may find the right people to help us make major change.

Every single person who donates this week will be honored on our website (unless you prefer to remain anonymous). We are a 501c3, so your donation is tax-deductible.

Today’s the day. Please help us build stronger families, one mom at a time.

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Get ready for Strong Start Day, Wednesday, October 5, 2011!

When Perinatal Pro was launched several years ago, it was to address the paucity of online resources for women and healthcare professionals. To bring those who care about women’s maternal mental health the latest information about legislative and social policy and initiatives regarding perinatal mood disorders.

But years earlier, Katherine Stone was already blogging to mothers about her own experiences with PMAD’s over at Postpartum Progress. She was already creating a safe online refuge where women could find reliable information about these disorders, where they would feel less alone, validated and know that there was hope for them. That with treatment and understanding, they would be well again.

Katherine was reaching out to mothers when there was literally NOTHING online outside of some medical or psychiatric language that didn’t tell moms what they really wanted to know – like…Am I crazy? Will I ever be back to normal? What is happening to me? How can I get well? How will I survive this?

How will this illness affect my baby’s future?

Katherine spent years gathering information from the most reliable healthcare providers and researchers, reputable specialized treatment centers, scientifically based reading materials, and trustworthy online resources.

And most importantly, she created a stigma busting online community of mothers who sustained and supported each other through their own maternal mental health challenges.

Today, Postpartum Progress with its passionate cadre of Warrior Moms is the most widely referenced online resource for PPD information in the world. A resource far too necessary and precious to lose. One which has grown in respect and stature over the past decade. One which is daily suggested and referenced as a primary resource by major healthcare institutions, researchers, policymakers and healthcare providers around the world.

And most of all, by the moms who have benefitted and overcome incredible obstacles to reclaim their lives and who are now the most spectacular kick-ass moms on the planet!

Katherine’s goals reach beyond her blog. Far beyond her influence as a national speaker able to galvanize a room of passive, bored conference goers into committed advocates. She has formed Postpartum Progress Inc., a new nonprofit venture that hopes to raise money and fund worthy projects supportive to mothers suffering from PMADs in a variety of contexts.

She has recruited a team of experienced board members for PPI who represent many disciplines and professions. Through her diligent efforts, she has positioned Postpartum Progress Inc where it can transition itself into a true “make a difference” nonprofit power in maternal mental health.

On Wednesday, Katherine’s personal letter will be posted here. She will be asking you if you can spare a dollar or two to help raise funds to support the programs, research and services that PPI feels are most likely to make a difference for new moms struggling with PMADs. Programs and studies which could save lives but which have been stalled, postponed, or lost because of a fiscal environment that does not prioritize maternal mental health.

I don’t know a single mother who has been through the agony of an antepartum or postpartum illness who wouldn’t write the biggest check she could if it would help another mom. I know this from witnessing the incredible generosity of mother-to-mother compassion. What one Warrior Mom will do for another inspires all of us.

But it’s really tough out there right now. Families are hurting. So if you are moved to donate, please do not feel your donation is too small to matter. Every dollar moves the line up a notch to faciliate even modest funding of a worthy service, program or study.

And if you can’t afford bupkis, than maybe a little time?

Email others about Postpartum Progress Inc who might be able to help out, or of course, who will benefit from its very existence.

So on Wednesday, October 5th, I’ll be posting the letter from Katherine outlining what is going to happen throughout Strong Start Day. I hope you will participate and support the Chief Warrior Mom and her organization – an entity that has been a life-saving resource for many.

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Pet loss and Postpartum Depression?

While it is acknowledged that loss during pregnancy and the postpartum can be a risk factor for the development of PPD, the general reference is to loss of human relationships. When an important family member or close friend dies while a mother is pregnant or after delivery, a significant support in that mother’s life is lost.

The mother may have imagined how her baby’s life would have been enhanced by this cherished relationship, or how the wisdom and experience offered by this person would have helped her through new mothering. A connection is severed, reducing the new mother’s circle of social support. It is not hard to appreciate the impact of such losses and understand the connection to emotional suffering.

But what about the significance of animal loss? Many expectant mothers are deeply bonded to their animals. It is not unusual for partners to have adopted animal companions prior to having children. And those animals share in the bonding of these unions… sometimes, animals are even present at the marriage or commitment ceremony of couples! Many couples describe their animals as their children, even after giving birth to a human infant.

Yet animal companion loss continues to suffer from a sort of disenfranchised grief. The grieving person is told to “get over it” and that they can always adopt another creature. After all, it was “only” an animal.

Tell that to a growing percentage of pet owners who suffer through devastating grief when they lose a precious animal companion. For some, that animal held cherished memories, or provided unconditional support when times were tough. An overwhelmingly loving presence in most lives, such losses are not easily processed. The animal may have gone through the pregnancy with the mother, sensing her status and already becoming protective of her and her unborn child. Or it may have welcomed the new infant with the family, quickly becoming a first line nanny!

In my practice, I have had many mothers talk to me about such losses during or after pregnancy and the devastating grief that follows. Others may express guilt, feeling that the baby’s arrival left little time to devote to the animal companion whose needs became secondary to that of the infant. For such families, the loss of an animal companion can represent a major challenge that could lead to transient or clinical depression.

The subject of animal companion loss can bring a wide variety of reactions. For those who have experienced this devastation, it brings validation, connection to others who have endured this loss and choose to express the depth of their attachment to their departed friend.

But for those who have not had this kind of relationship with a family pet, they may inadvertently dismiss such reactions as unhealthy and overblown, further alienating someone who is deeply grieving.

If a pregnant or new mother you know has recently lost a precious pet, please support her through this loss with understanding and validation. Ask about it, ask about the animal’s life and meaning. Be willing to listen.

Here is a wonderful article on pet loss. If you would like to learn more, please click on over to the this story by
Andrea Kahn which also describes my own work on this important topic.
. One way to advocate and extend understanding of this form of loss is to send feedback or commentary to the publication. So if you are moved and have had this experience, do leave Andrea a comment.

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